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Good Times!

I was driving home listening to the radio when the song Too Close, by Next  came on. It took me back to the days of hanging out at The Orange Tree Resort in the lounge on a Friday or Saturday night listening to Dony's rendition of that song. We would dance up until the band ended. The band was Tribe 7 with Dony Adair.

We became friends with Dony and had many parties and probably too many great times there. But, it was always fun with the regulars on Friday and Saturday nights. It just so happened that the last night we were there, the lounge was closing and the band was searching for a new venue.

 Dony is still singing and is with the Tre Ja Vu Band.

I would love to find a place again like the Orange Tree where it's not full of 21 year olds and fake boobs. Not that I'm opposed to either one, but I like a variety.

                          The Orange Tree lounge left us with great memories... good times!

“Music gives a soul to the universe, wings to the mind, flight to the imagination 
and life to everything.” 

Dance is the hidden language of the soul. *Martha Graham* 


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