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Unexpected Rd.

Have you ever felt like life is taking you down a road that you shouldn't be on? I think we all have been there sometime in our life.

I have a few people in my life that are going through some stuff right now. As a friend I'm praying, being supportive and encouraging, but I really hate seeing them going through a rough time because of someone else and their choices. I've been there and it's tough.

Maybe we have to take some responsibility for allowing others to disrupt our life... maybe we need to make better choices ourselves - either way it's not a fun ride.

There's no easy road in life and we will always have unexpected ones. Sometimes life sucks. It won't last forever and we can get through it. I don't think we're ever prepared for it. It sneaks up on us and makes our life chaotic and uneasy, but remember to Never stay there long. Like everything else in life, this to shall pass.


Life is not always a matter of holding good cards, but sometimes playing a poor hand well.
Jack London


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