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Happy Place

I'm always on I found Things To Be Happy About while I was on it.

I'm happy someone is posting daily things to be happy about - there's always something for us to embrace and be thankful for, and those things should bring us happiness.

As for me, before my feet hit the floor in the morning I'm thanking God for blessing me with another day, thankful for friends, family, health, shelter, food - for a body that functions and a mind that works. Being blessed with these things that are often taken for granted create happiness for me.                                                                

I believe everyone has happiness and should find their happy. I personally don't think what makes people happy is based on material items or success. I feel it's your outlook on life, faith, and the quality of your relationships with the people that you have in your life. I also know that no one person is happy all of the time. I have my days when a memory hits that makes me begin to spiral down hill and getting out of bed a challenge. But it's my faith that gives me the strength to have a glimpse of my sadness, but gets me back to my happy place.                                                                                                                                                             

I learned at a very young age that you can't expect other people to create your happiness - you need to do that on your own. So find your happy and embrace it, reflect on it, meditate with it, and own it. We all deserve to be happy.


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